Nah it's not. I can see how someone would want to normalise such a shitty event to deal with it but the fathers I know and myself have been much much more involved and supportive than our fathers were
Sure, but it’s a lot different when people who work in that field are telling you these things vs an individual saying “well I was a good husband and so were my friends”.
It’s the same way statistically men are a lot more likely to leave their partner when dealing with major medical issues, like cancer. You could still say “well I would never leave mine*, but that doesn’t mean that doesn’t happen to so many other people
You being a good husband doesn’t discredit all of the women who have dealt with shitty partners during childbirth
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u/tiorzol Apr 24 '26
Nah it's not. I can see how someone would want to normalise such a shitty event to deal with it but the fathers I know and myself have been much much more involved and supportive than our fathers were