r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • u/WithSkelly • Apr 24 '26

Meme needing explanation Lois?

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u/tiorzol Apr 24 '26

Nah it's not. I can see how someone would want to normalise such a shitty event to deal with it but the fathers I know and myself have been much much more involved and supportive than our fathers were 

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u/Square-Singer Apr 24 '26

This. Everyone sees themselves as the standard, the "normal". Even if they are far, far away from "normal".

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u/Vel_Cosby Apr 24 '26

Yup, if they married and had a child with a man like this, you can't really expect the people they surround themselves with to be vastly different. So they'd think it's normal to be like this.

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u/cptspeirs Apr 24 '26

I think childbirth also brings a lot of the narc behaviors to the surface more dramatically. Before the kid, the partner was the default focus, no real competition. Once the kid is born it becomes impossible for the partner the be the focus with feedings, diaper changes etc, requiring more overt/drastic demands and manipulation.