What do you think youre proving by posting this? 86% attending the birth of their infant seems very very high, you'd probably see less consistent attendance for almost any event where they're not legally required to be there, and maybe even some where they are lol.
Then the second part, them feeling unwelcome or "in the way" is pretty understandable. Husbands can only do so much, it's the wife giving birth that is the main event, and shes the only one that can push that baby out. If the husband has done everything he can, assuming he's not medically trained to actually deliver the baby, then how could he not feel "in the way" when his wife is going through that? That of course doesn't justify leaving, but I can understand not wanting to be in the way of the trained professionals who are trying to get your beloved partner through such a traumatic event.
I’m proving that this has been studied and not just gut feeling of nurses. That said, would consider 14% of the population “common.” That’s a lot of people!
About the same percent of people are left handed, would you consider that common?
Also I don't see it stated anywhere why the 14% of husbands weren't present, there are countless reasons, valid or otherwise, why someone wouldnt be able to attend. Not to excuse all of them, but if lets say the husband was in a car accident and was severely injured or even killed, that would count as not being present for the birth. You seem to be assuming all of that 14% were just not interested or didn't want to be there.
it's literally anecdotal unless they actually record and analyze the data statistically
Anecdotal refers to information based on personal accounts, individual experiences, or informal observations rather than rigorous, scientific, or systematic evidence. It often consists of stories or hearsay used to support an argument, but it is considered unreliable for proving facts due to a lack of controlled research.
That is 14% of all hospital births, probably pretty close to the % where the couple were never or are no longer together. 86% means that the ratio of men attending the birth of their children vs those who don't is 6:1 so no it's not "common", it's "common" that they DO show up, statistically, its RARE that they don't.
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u/Aurrr-Naurrrr Apr 24 '26
Whatever their findings, Id genuinely love to see their methodology lol