Turns out people in this thread are married to some absolute mouth breathing empty headed idiots. I was there as my wife as much as humanly possible. But some people just chose the wrong guys it seems. If I tried to walk out to smoke weed, or go out and buy beer, or complain I would be a single dad. Some guys are just plain idiots, but then some of these woman really do have a low bar of standards too
My husband and I had to go through me being induced and birthing my son who had already passed away. And then my very next labor was traumatic because our daughter kept having heart rate decelerations during the labor and there were multiple moments where I was almost wheeled out for an emergency C-section. Our last labor I felt like the nurses were being very judgemental of my husband being checked out at quiet. Birth trauma for husbands is a thing. And then he had to go home to be with our young children at home and relieve our babysitter so he didn't spend the night with me. Which is what I asked him to do because our children at home had never been away from us overnight. The amount of quiet judgment from the nurses was insane. I'm sure they talked about the unsupportive husband who went home to sleep through the night. I hate watching videos where L&D nurses make statements about what a good husband does.
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u/Strebmal2019 Apr 24 '26
Yeah this is a really fuckin stupid one. Not every husband/new father is a piece of shit.