Mine left the hospital to grab a couple tallboys (large cans of beer) at the gas station across the street so he could get a buzz on while I was laboring.
Mine was watching truck shows and eating horrible smelling bar mix while lounging with his feet propped up on a hand rail. Meanwhile I was going through induction labor (iykyk) and nauseous as fuck.
They don’t - they mask and hide who they truly are. Typically they do it until you’re locked in, pregnant, or living together. Do you think people happily get married and have kids with people that are flaming assholes from the beginning? Do you think my ex husband told me the day he met me that he was going to rape me and beat me one day, and that I chose to get with him after knowing that? Or is it more likely that he faked his way until I was stuck, and then I had to fight to escape with my life? Be more thoughtful of other’s situations.
Not dismissing any of that - that’s horrible. But Take more personal accountability.
You make it out like they are some movie villain whose entire focus was on deceiving you. Maybe you had rose colored glasses - maybe you should have removed yourself from the situation sooner - maybe you should have not gone forward with the pregnancy to pass on his genetics and make them have to have that type of father
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u/fivebynine5x9 Apr 24 '26
Mine left the hospital to grab a couple tallboys (large cans of beer) at the gas station across the street so he could get a buzz on while I was laboring.
ETA it felt great to leave him.