r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • u/WithSkelly • Apr 24 '26

Meme needing explanation Lois?

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u/Nana-stole-my-banana Apr 24 '26 edited Apr 24 '26

I don't know why you're getting such defensive answers from the commenters, THIS IS IT. Even the most well-intended encouragement can hit a nerve when it's coming from a person who doesn't know the pain you're in, and tells you to relax.

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u/Major-BFweener Apr 24 '26

They told her to relax?

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u/Nana-stole-my-banana Apr 24 '26

Not in those exact terms, but "it's okay, babe" conveys a similar sentiment

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u/clamsandwich Apr 24 '26

That's not at all what that's meant to convey in this context. It's meant as everything will be okay, you're doing great, that type of stuff - encouragement and support.

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u/Nana-stole-my-banana Apr 24 '26

There's often a gap between what's said and what's heard, especially in stressful situations - that's all I'm trying to say.

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u/clamsandwich Apr 24 '26

Ah I get you, fair enough. I've been married for 16 years and I know there are certain times when I keep my mouth shut because any word I utter will be taken in the absolute worst possible way it can be taken. One learns to navigate situations accordingly. And I've been on the other side of that as well, not proud of that.

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u/Eillon94 Apr 24 '26

Damned if you offer encouragement, damned if you dont