r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Apr 24 '26

Meme needing explanation Lois?

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 24 '26

Chris here, the joke is sexism, she doesn't expect a man to be present and supportive durig childbirth

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u/hopelesslysad7256 Apr 24 '26

More like it's uncommon to see in her work . If it were a random saying it then I'd say it's sexism but it's a whole medical practitioner who has probably seen countless births so if she is surprised it's because it isn't something they see all the time not because she's taking a jab at men or whatever.

I don't think it can just be labeled as sexism though because they haven't given a reason or trait that makes men not be there for their partners. Some are in the room but keep their distance, some are right next to their partner, some don't even make it into the room .

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u/TemporaryEconomist Apr 24 '26

Yeah, it’s like calling women drama queens. Since men agree most women are drama queens, calling them drama queens is not sexist.

Except of course it’s sexist.

Both of the above is sexist.

Most men stay with their wife / girlfriend when she’s giving birth and show her support. Don’t know a single father who hasn’t unless he didn’t make it in time. Those who can’t make it regret it their entire lives.

Now stop defending sexism. It’s not a good look.

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u/Academic_Flatworm752 Apr 24 '26

Most men are present for the birth now but this is a massive cultural shift from 20 years ago when most were not present. And given the cultural shift in which men are getting partnered (“male loneliness epidemic”), it makes sense that mostly better quality present men are getting partnered and becoming fathers.

Those men who would’ve been less present are now complaining about being lonely.

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u/fredjutsu Apr 24 '26

30 years ago even, men generally weren't even allowed in the theatre. This is how I know this whole defense of sexism is bad faith.