I argue the opposite; I cant think of any of my peers who have kids that are not devoted to them. My best friend and I plan things based on soccer games, and I go to recitals.
Whats "common" is also going to be "relative," but in the absence of "data," you're going to be hard pressed to convince me of your "position."
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u/Jacket_Jacket_fruit Apr 24 '26
"I personally experienced it, therefore it must be common" is not how that works.
I'm sorry you had a shitty experience and your ex was a POS, but that does not make your experience a common or normal experience.