Turns out people in this thread are married to some absolute mouth breathing empty headed idiots. I was there as my wife as much as humanly possible. But some people just chose the wrong guys it seems. If I tried to walk out to smoke weed, or go out and buy beer, or complain I would be a single dad. Some guys are just plain idiots, but then some of these woman really do have a low bar of standards too
You would be surprised at the number of men who completely switch up the moment the woman either becomes pregnant or has the baby. A lot of women don't follow through with their pregnancy knowing they're going to be all alone, either literally or in spirit. These men talk a big game but have no follow through, and the woman's only real flaw is daring to believe them.
I find it interesting your phrase it as women being married to idiots rather than the men just... being idiots. It may not have been overtly intentional on your part but its fundamentally placing blame on the woman for the actions of the man. "How could she marry such a loser," is a lot different than "How could he be such a loser."
Nope nope nope. They always show their true colors women are just either a) not experienced enough to know what’s happening or b) just ignoring them. But stop painting women as this ignorant creature that just is so easily manipulated when she’s also playing a role in choosing to be with someone that’s shitty. Like as a woman it’s setting us back.
"They always show their true colors" meanwhile it is common for DV to only begin once women are trapped either via marriage or pregnancy. It is absolutely possible for someone to hide their true colors. Furthermore, even if they don't hide their shitty ways, women undergo massive life changes to accomodate unexpected pregnancy and the subsequent child. It isn't out of this world to expect that the father will, too.
And with the abortion laws and sex education being what they are in the states and much of the world, I'd go easy on saying that women choose to have children with these men.
Firstly not clicking a random link from the internet. Second I can see from your replies to the other person you lack reading comprehension skills. Reread my first 2 points and turn on your brain. I am not faulting women who don’t know what’s happening or are surrounded by ppl who encourage them to tolerate that. However the women who are AWARE of the signs and still CHOOSE to stay and being a child into it are a problem.
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Most aren’t.