Yup, if they married and had a child with a man like this, you can't really expect the people they surround themselves with to be vastly different. So they'd think it's normal to be like this.
Yes. You choose the people who you spend time with. If the genders were reversed, it would equally be the man's fault for choosing the partner they chose.
You act like a woman is assigned a man to be with and it's just dumb luck. 🙄
You really think you 100% choose the people you surround yourself with? Don’t you think people are constrained and shaped by social, geographical, cultural, financial etc factors?
What about psychological factors (socialised or genetically wired in) that might limit someone’s worldview around the kind of person they think they deserve to be with?
So interested for you to tell me how it's the woman's fault her man vapes and games during her labour tho!
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u/Square-Singer Apr 24 '26
This. Everyone sees themselves as the standard, the "normal". Even if they are far, far away from "normal".