FYI moat dad's are pushed out sideways by all the staff and mum as things lead up to labour.
When you have spent days being told to sit in the corner and keep out of the way, you tend to not be involved.
I held my wife while she slowly died on an opperating theatre table, unable to move because of all rhe wires and tubes around me. I'm lucky they both survived, but I didn't get told or involved with anything untill about 30 mins after when everyone was stableised.
So yes dad's are not involved, because rhey are told not to be.
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