Yup, if they married and had a child with a man like this, you can't really expect the people they surround themselves with to be vastly different. So they'd think it's normal to be like this.
The self-formed bubble is such a common perception-distorting issue. It's the same with "Why aren't there any good guys, all the guys I date are assholes." or "Why aren't there any good women? All the women I date just want my money.".
Well, if you keep dating a specific type of person, you will end up dating that specifict type of person.
Could be. It all depends on what attracts you. If you are a shallow person and sex is a high priority, looks are going to be the number 1 thing that is going to attract you. Seeking out sex with someone that is attractive makes sense and is normal...
..But leads to terrible relationships. Because once the magic of new wears off and familiarity sets in, you realize youre incompatible.
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u/Vel_Cosby Apr 24 '26
Yup, if they married and had a child with a man like this, you can't really expect the people they surround themselves with to be vastly different. So they'd think it's normal to be like this.