Yup, if they married and had a child with a man like this, you can't really expect the people they surround themselves with to be vastly different. So they'd think it's normal to be like this.
The self-formed bubble is such a common perception-distorting issue. It's the same with "Why aren't there any good guys, all the guys I date are assholes." or "Why aren't there any good women? All the women I date just want my money.".
Well, if you keep dating a specific type of person, you will end up dating that specifict type of person.
Many people unconsciously choose someone that is similar to their parents. Men are notorious for choosing women that resemble their mothers. That doesn't end well.
Oh I hope not. I really don't want to become a statistic of Freud's. Also my mother is an absolute nightmare looks and personality wise(hey a case of the outside match's the inside, how did i not notice that until now. Truly an awful woman)
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u/Vel_Cosby Apr 24 '26
Yup, if they married and had a child with a man like this, you can't really expect the people they surround themselves with to be vastly different. So they'd think it's normal to be like this.