As a dad myself, dudes who willingly deny themselves being in the presence of the miracle of childbirth let alone being there for the entirety of what comes after baffles me.
Same. My coworker is a nice guy who really cares for his lovely wife. But he insists that he can’t be with her whenever they have a child. He says he’s too weak and will be an issue for the nurses blergh blergh blergh. He’s a coward. You decided to have kids with your wife. She can’t chose „the easy way“ (nah, a C-section is not an easy way, it’s still a surgery and recovery can be hard) and stay home. You’re responsible for the mother and the child. And if you’re not easy with seeing blood or tissue stay on the topside. I would have been so mad at my husband the moment he stayed home without a good reason (we discussed him staying home with our older daughter but my sister could watch her, that would have been a good reason). I try not to be judgy be yet here I am judging those dads hard.
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