If that man or women still chooses to stay with that person then yes. Id be curious as to why. Often, not always, but often, therr are plenty of signs that those people are shit. A person being an excellent partner consistently for years then suddenly smacking their wife or cheating on their husband doew happen, but is far rarer than you make it seem. Stories of long winded build ups over time and red flag after red flag are much more common.
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u/PantsandPlants Apr 24 '26
So, for every man who is cheated on by his wife, we can ask why he was so stupid to pick a cheating wife as his spouse?
Or for every man who’s wife hits him and yells at him we can ask why that man cared so little that he would choose to be with an abusive woman?
Or can you understand changing the verbiage to put the blame on the partner who is choosing to cheat or be abusive?